Well, I just spent the past hour and a half looking for the perfect book, and I've found one. It's about the "nice girl" syndrome, which I'm pretty sure I have. I've been manipulated and controlled by a lot of family members my whole life, and I'm just pretty sick of it to be honest. It's hard for me to say no and know when to speak up and say, THIS IS NOT OKAY. I just felt like sharing my excitement that I finally found the perfect book! (written by Beverly Engel) I hope it's as good as it sounds, and I really hope it helps me be stronger and happier. I guess we'll see...